Why Can't We Be Friends?

This isn't the blog I had planned for today, but unfortunately I'm  a little under the weather.
Later this week, as in tomorrow or the next day, i'll give you the breasts blog... it's gonna be fun. :)

For now, to hold you over... lets talk about being friends with your ex.

You guys have actually asked this question A LOT. Most of you are in the situation that I am in, where you were friends before... so losing him felt like you also lost your best friend.
This is a complicated matter. My initial advice is make sure you are completely healed first.

My friend put this the best way i have heard it, when you see him, you want to feel nothing. Not happy, not angry, just nothing.

Once you get to that point, AND only then. Can you consider being friends.

Think about it this way.
Am i going to be able to see him with someone else? if the answers no, then maybe reconsider for your sake. But if your heart is ice like mine... you won't care. (I'm kidding, but i can see him with other girls)

Then it really depends on the pair of you, but you need to find out how much time you can spend together without you falling for him again. For me, only one maybe two days a week i can see him and remain relaxed.

It's a dangerous zone and has a LOT of heartbreak potential befriending your ex. So think about it a lot and don't let your guard down... maybe for some of you, don't do it at all.

OKAY later this week (tomorrow or thurs) i'll be posting a VLOG all about the BREASTS.  How to take care of them, make them look bigger, and how to love them.
So thats the real blog... this is more just of a long answer.

Beauty tip- Start exercising again. It releases endorphins, that make you happy and give you MORE energy. Also you'll feel good about yourself... and build more confidence. I'm going to start jogging 5 days a week. what about you? Dancing, Yoga, Power-Walking?

XOXO, Alexis